However, you mentioned that he shows more of an effort when you “care less”, so I would say that if that’s what works, why not hang back and let him put in the effort.
When it comes to people, it doesn’t matter what you think people should respond to – it only matters what they actually do respond to.
The majority of these issues could be resolved by just doing what you did – backing off, giving the guy some space and letting him come to you and put in the effort.
Too often I see girls smothering or nagging a guy when he doesn’t do what they want him to.
If you like this guy, go with what seems to be working best with him – give him space and let him put the effort in.
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In general, there’s nothing wrong with you initiating plans with a guy.As a result, he started putting in more of an effort because you gave him space to do so.I have to tell you, my e-mail box is FILLED with e-mails about how some guy didn’t text back or didn’t call or didn’t set his Facebook status to say “In a relationship”, etc.On the other hand, it can take some guys longer than others to figure out what they want, so you need to have a good sense of how patient you want to be.If you hit a breaking point, there’s nothing wrong with putting your thoughts out there and letting him know where you’re coming from.